What I was Up To....

♥15 YEARS AGO (1994)♥
1) How old were you? 13.
2) Who were you dating? No one.
3) Where did you work? No work, in middle school.
4) Where did you live? Las Vegas, NV.
5) Where did you hang out? Home, on Nellis Airforce Base, Mall.
6) Did you wear contacts and/or glasses? Nope.
7) Who were your best friends? Jennifer, Vanessa
8) How many tattoos did you have? 0
9) How many piercings did you have? 4, in my ears.
10) What kind of car did you drive? Didn't drive.
11) Had you been to a real party? A kids birthday party. Haha.
12) Had you had your heart broken? Nope.
13) Were you Single/taken/Married/Divorced? Single.
14) Any Kids? Definitely not.

♥10 YEARS AGO (1999)♥
1) How old were you? 18.
2) Who were you dating? LaDerrian, Jason, & some other dudes. LOL.
3) Where did you work? J.C. Penney Catalog
4) Where did you live? Austin, TX.
5) Where did you hang out? Where ever.
6) Did you wear contacts and/or glasses? Nope.
7) Who were your best friends? None really.
8) How many tattoos did you have? 0
9) How many piercings did you have? Just my ears (but had my nose prior)
10) Had your heart broken? Definitely.
11) Were you Single/Taken/Married/Divorced? Mingling.
12)Any Kids? 0

♥TODAY (2009)♥
1) Age? 28.
2) Who are you dating? David.
3) Where do you work? Great American.
4) Where do you live? Austin, TX.
5) Who are your closest friends? David, Rebecca, Pinkie, Janie, Christina.
6) Do you talk to your old friends? some...on Myspace and Facebook.
7) How many piercings do you have? Just the ears, still.
8) How many tattoos? 1
9) What kind of car do you have? PT Cruiser & Buick Roadmaster.
10) Had your heart been broken? Somewhat...lol.
11) How many kids? 3, Aries, Natalya and Brayden.
12) Are you Single/Taken/Married/Divorced? Taken - engaged.

Ahhh! Its going to be a busy summer

So yesterday we drove up to Houston and back, we got David's son DJ aka David Jr. We left right after work and got back around 4am this morning. OMG......I am still tired. I was planning on going into work to get some OT but decided forget it! I was too tired and only doing a couple of hours wouldn't have been real OT, just physical hours since we had the holiday this past Monday. Oh well, I'll work on major OT come next week.


So now we have 4 kids in the house, YIKES! David will be off all summer since he works for the school district. In this tiny two bedroom, it as fine before...but I realized now, we need a bigger place. I can't wait til the lease is up..........next March to get into a bigger place, at least a 3 bedroom. We're making plans to go to Sea World later in the summer, thats going to be fun and some other things.

Definitely have to get things in order as well. Lots of clean up time this weekend. Ohhh and my babies are sick, well Nati had a virus last weekend w/ some cold in her eye. Then Snuk got it this past weekend, so we took him to the doctor on Thursday...good thing because he was getting fluid in his left ear and I could only imagine how he'd be screaming his head off even worse. So he's doing better today, other than MAJOR DIAPER EXPLOSIVES! Its like poop is everywhere, up his back....why don't it go further down, no it goes up his back and out. Ewww! Lol. Thats about it so far.........check out the pic of my sick baby. Awwwww. He looks so sweet there. That was his worst night. Can you see it in his lil' eyes. Oh and I got some video coming soon from Youtube of Snuk trying to crawl. He's up on all four legs like he's a pro. He's been doing that for 2 weeks now....now he's rocking and moving backwards. I give him another two weeks and he'll be officially crawling.

Can't believe I'm saying this...

but I actually love my job! Or maybe its the place. Or it could be what I'm doing. Or the people I'm working with. Heck all of it! LOL. I mean its a great company and I can actually say its better than FirstCare (which I loved so dearly, my friends know). So here's the run down, I work for a company processing long term care claims. That is the most interesting thing ever to me! Not the same ol' same ol' and I'm constantly busy, I never run out of issues or things to do. And my day just goes so fast.

I just love it! So I signed up for their Summer Bowling League, even got David to do it. LOL. I love bowling though, plus its some good exercise. David said he's horrible at it, but I say practice makes perfect. Except we need 2 more people for our team. Yikes! Hopefully someone else signs up w/ us cause I don't have any friends...that have men as well to join us. But its going to be fun. I even joined the Walk Spree that the company is doing....supposed to get this pedometer to count my steps all day long. And they have some cool prizes. I'd love to win big but doubt that will happen. Lol. Not that lucky.

Outside of that...just been real busy and doing lots of OT. I am proud to say I got all the claims I have to pay on done. However the new ones come in on the 1st of the month...3 days away but I'm making progress. :)

Yeah...thats my boring tidbit on my job. Haha.

Recouping & Old Drama

So we've been recouping from that trip, in the midst of that........my house looks like a tornado hit it. I mean damn, we've had our moments where our house looks throwed but this is different. A whole other level. And yes, my ass is on here typing about it rather than cleaning up. I will, promise after this. I just gotta get motivated. Haha. You'd think the mess alone would be the motivation, ummm...no. Its like I gotta pep talk myself into doing it. Why? I hate that. Plus I've been working a lot, I got the okay to do overtime at work and believe.......been taking advantage of doing it. So I've been catching on some sleep as well.

Then some old drama came creeping its way back in. Back during the time that David and I broke up and when he returned, well there were some text messages between him and a friend (another chic). At the time, I really believed they were friends only (tried my best to at least, ha!) but I always keep an out. With the way females are these days, you can't trust shit...especially if they really don't talk to you. So she decides to talk to me after all this time, mind you when I read those texts she sent him (that basically suggested something happened between them while we were broken up), since he gave me vague answers...I sent her a message asking for a straight answer, she never responded. So she decides to talk to me about this, told me how he told her they were going to be together, how he got her daughter attached (kind of confused on that too), how he tried to have sex with her, etc. Just mad how he played her and went back to me. Ummmm, does she remember who she's talking to? LOL. I am the one that he left...and was somewhat encouraged by her to leave and how she would do what I wasn't. Now if that ain't throwed, I don't know what is. Haha.

First, all I can think is...I'm a really cool person, very loyal to my friends. I wanted to be friends with her and be cool with her. I mean even then, I didn't know he was just bad mouthing about me to her the whole 2 years we've been together. Damnnnnnnnnnn. But real deal, if I was that bad, why not leave me beforehand. Or on her side, talk to me and see whats the deal. Get both sides, if you were trying to be friends on both sides. Like I told him, you just don't talk to the opposite sex like that...it only leads to drama and guess what, it did. I'm sure she'll read this but fuck it...this is my life, this is my man. The person I have invested all this time with. Why should I feel sorry for her? The reason he stopped talking to her, ain't because I told him to. He did it because he knew he left me for some bullshit ass reasons. He knows he loves me, he knows I'm the one he wants to be with and for us to have a relationship...he can't have some other female (who basically was looking out for her own wants, not looking out for a friend) whispering in his ears about what she will do for him.

And thats the lesson learned, the grass ain't always greener on the other side. Yes, they kissed and he admitted that (she didn't even admit that to me). Will he talk to her again, I don't know. I don't think its right for them too, considering both decided to cross the line of friendship while we were together. The boundaries were broken and I'm not one to put up with disrespect. I have forgiven him for his part and I forgive her. But they ruined any opportunity of friendship going forward, he understands that and thats the reason he's cut off the communication. Hopefully she understands. But don't make me feel bad for what you did.....I had no part in what you did.

This falls back to that blog (which funny part about it really had nothing to do with this situation at the time) about why women think its okay to go after or mess with other people's men. Which actually falls for both sexes. I don't get it. Thats not in me to purposely go for someone that is attached to someone else. I don't agree with it, I don't feel sorry for those who knowingly put themselves in that situation............I think people deserve the reprecussions of what the do. Hopefully they take that as a lesson learned. God don't like ugly.

Uggh...outside of that drama and finally putting it out there, I'm done thinking or talking about it.

the Switch Over

I moved my blogging over to here...officially. Woo hoo! I didn't realize I had so many blogs on myspace. LOL. And some interesting ones...OMG, just reading them over a lil bit is crazy. The stuff I went through, the emotions in my head at those moments. Amazing and kind of like...what was I thinking? Haha.

Oh, in regards to the upstairs neighbors post......they moved. It was like 4 weeks ago, we realized that it got real quiet and then seen no one is up there now. I wonder what happened? LOL. Oh and the nice exchange of words w/ the downstairs neighbors...lets not go there, but he ain't said nothing to us or me since. Wish he would! Can't wait to get out of these apartments and into a house. Its about that time.

I do need to do some updates but I got this up...and I do have some things to do today. So tomorrow I will update on all the happenings. :)

Our Trip to New Orleans

So we just got back from New Orleans, it was one of those quick decisions and well it was well worth it. David got to see allll his family, people he hasn't seen in forever and well they finally got to meet the person thats been keeping him hostage here in Texas. Hahaha.

So the trip is about 8 hours 4 minutes, thats what yahoo maps says. But keep in mind we have a car full of kids and one thats a 4 month old baby. We left about 5am (were supposed to leave at like 2:30-3am). We got up at that time but left late (thats us...late!). Get on the road...stopped out near Bastrop to drop some money off to my sister (ummmmmm, she didn't look to good but thats a whole other story). Yes, it was almost 6am but damnnnn...she got skinny out of no where and some other stuff, kind of grossed me out. Finally we get going, stopped in Baytown or something at Waffle House to eat and then hit the road again. So David really thinks he tricked me into driving from Baytown to Baton Rouge. Now mind you, I couldn't remember how far the Tiger Stop (a gas station that has a tiger exhibit) but I had decided I would drive us that far anyways. So yeah, I did a lot of driving on the way there. We made it to New Orleans by 3pm.


Well we made it there, spent time w/ his aunt and outside his Grandma's...even went to David's nanny's house to hang out, eat pizza, etc. Then I couldn't stay up no longer, so we headed to his brothers house....and the last time we went and stayed w/ his brother and his family. They had a waterbug come in (I'm deathly afraid of these things), so I figured I'd be safe upstairs, come to find out there was one upstairs in the room as well. LOL. Well I was too tired to notice. That Sunday (mother's day) was his neice's birthday party, now I knew David had a lot of family that stayed on that street but there were so many people there. The street was closed down. They boiled lots of crawfish, the party was like 3 hours late gettin' going though. LOL. But hey, it happened. It was a long day though, plus it was hot as hell!

Also, it was kind of weird to see his babymama hanging out there too. Yes, we've talked and I've done my best to make things cool with her but it was kind of awkward. LOL. I understand DJ being there but her??? I mean the impression I always got from David was she really wasn't tight with his family, only his Nanny because she was watching DJ for awhile and she'd drive her places. It was just a bit strange...like oh, here's David's one babymama...and the new one. Haha, but I guess it didn't bother him, hell I rarely seen him that day. And just thinking of it, he didn't even tell me Happy Mother's Day or even have flowers, a card, something........and we got into over that. Believe he heard about it. I don't know what it is, its like when he gets down there he kind of acts one way compared to being home. Not sure how to explain it. I feel like the odd man out at times when we visit. So that day did kind of start off rough. Maybe its because I'm so used to having him to myself here and then when we visit, he only has little time to spend with those he hasn't seen? Hmmm....

So we headed back home on Monday morning, left about 10:30am and we were making some real good time, then we hit the Texas border..........and all was lost. We stopped to eat at Burger King and that shit was disgusting. You'd think that they all tasted the same, blahhhhh! So disappointing when I was so hungry, even the oreo cookie shake was gross. And we stopped another 3 million times, we didn't get home til like 8pm. It was the longest day of my life. LOL. Oh and while leaving Louisiana, we seen this truck on the road....the pic is attached, was funny to me.